Giving Thanks: A Biblical Theology of Gratitude

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI

Thanksgiving is more than a polite gesture in Scripture—it is a spiritual practice rooted in truth, memory, and worship. Gratitude pulls the believer’s heart away from fear and entitlement and redirects it toward trust, humility, and joy. It is one of Scripture’s most repeated teachings because it shapes the soul. Through thanksgiving, we learn to see God’s hand in our lives, remember His faithfulness, and live with open eyes and open hearts. These ten biblical groupings reveal a complete and interconnected theology of gratitude, showing why thanksgiving is essential for the Christian life.


1. Direct Commands to Give Thanks

The Bible does not treat thanksgiving as optional. It is commanded repeatedly because gratitude is a safeguard for the soul—it breaks pride, counters anxiety, renews memory, and keeps the heart anchored in God’s goodness. God commands thanksgiving not because He needs praise, but because we need the spiritual clarity that thanksgiving produces.

Key Scriptures:

  • 1 Thessalonians 5:18 — “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
  • Psalm 107:1 — “Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever.”
  • Psalm 136:1 — “Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good. His love endures forever.”
  • Colossians 3:15–17 — “Be thankful…with gratitude in your hearts…giving thanks to God the Father.”

Thanksgiving here is obedience shaped by trust.


2. Thanksgiving as Worship

Thanksgiving is not separate from worship—it is the doorway into it. In Scripture, gratitude is how the Believer approaches God. It is how we acknowledge His greatness and His character before asking for anything else. Thanksgiving reminds us of who God is, long before we focus on what we need.

Key Scriptures:

  • Psalm 100:4 — “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise.”
  • Psalm 95:2 — “Let us come before him with thanksgiving and extol him with music and song.”
  • Hebrews 13:15 — “Let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise.”

Thanksgiving becomes the worshiper’s first act of reverence.


3. Examples of Thankfulness in Action

Scripture gives concrete stories showing gratitude practiced in real life: under pressure, in danger, during scarcity, after healing, and before miracles. These examples reveal that thanksgiving is not dependent on circumstances but grows out of faith, memory, and relationship with God.

Key Scriptures:

  • Daniel 6:10 — Daniel “gave thanks to his God” though it might cost him his life.
  • Luke 17:15–16 — One healed leper returned to thank Jesus—gratitude sets him apart.
  • John 6:11 — Jesus gives thanks before the loaves multiply, teaching that gratitude comes before abundance.
  • Acts 27:35 — Paul gives thanks publicly during a storm to strengthen others.

These examples show thanksgiving is a testimony—seen, heard, and influential.


4. Thanksgiving for God’s Works and Deliverance

Thanksgiving in Scripture is deeply tied to remembrance—remembering rescue, answered prayer, protection, healing, and God’s hand in crisis. Gratitude becomes the believer’s way of proclaiming what God has done.

Key Scriptures:

  • Psalm 118:21 — “I will give you thanks, for you answered me; you have become my salvation.”
  • Psalm 30:12 — “I will give you thanks forever.”
  • Psalm 34:1 — “His praise will always be on my lips.”
  • Revelation 11:17 — “We give thanks to you, Lord God Almighty,” for His victories.

Thanksgiving becomes memory turned into worship.


5. Thanksgiving and Prayer

Prayer and thanksgiving are inseparable in Scripture. Gratitude in prayer shifts the heart from fear to trust, from restlessness to peace. Thanksgiving acknowledges God’s past faithfulness as the foundation for today’s requests.

Key Scriptures:

  • Philippians 4:6 — Present your requests “with thanksgiving.”
  • Colossians 4:2 — “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.”
  • Ephesians 5:20 — “Always giving thanks…for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

Thanksgiving deepens prayer by transforming it from a list into a relationship.


6. Thanksgiving for Salvation and Redemption

At the center of Christian gratitude stands the cross. Scripture repeatedly links thanksgiving to the saving work of Christ—victory over sin, death, and bondage. Every spiritual blessing, every promise, every hope flows from this gift.

Key Scriptures:

  • 2 Corinthians 9:15 — “Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!”
  • 1 Corinthians 15:57 — “Thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”
  • Romans 6:17 — “Thanks be to God” that believers are freed from sin.

Thanksgiving is the ongoing response to the Gospel.


7. Thanksgiving as a Mark of a Renewed Life

Gratitude is not merely something Christians do—it is something God forms in us. Scripture shows that a thankful heart is evidence of spiritual maturity, spiritual memory, and the transforming work of the Holy Spirit.

Key Scriptures:

  • Colossians 2:6–7 — Those rooted in Christ “overflow with thankfulness.”
  • Psalm 103:1–2 — “Forget not all his benefits.”
  • 1 Chronicles 16:34 — “Give thanks…for his love endures forever.”

Thankfulness reveals a soul awakened by grace.


8. Thanksgiving in the Psalms — Hymns of the Heart

The Psalms give us the Bible’s most beautiful language of thanksgiving. They model gratitude that is poetic, passionate, honest, and overflowing. The Psalms teach us that thanksgiving is not rigid—sometimes it is quiet and reflective; other times it is loud and exuberant.

Key Scriptures (each now explicitly included):

  • Psalm 9:1 — “I will give thanks to you, LORD, with all my heart.”
  • Psalm 28:7 — “My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him.”
  • Psalm 92:1 — “It is good to give thanks to the LORD.”
  • Psalm 69:30 — “I will praise God’s name in song and glorify him with thanksgiving.”

The Psalms teach us how to pray, sing, and feel our gratitude.


9. Thanksgiving in Community Worship

Thanksgiving is most powerful when the people of God do it together. Corporate gratitude strengthens unity, lifts weary hearts, and testifies to God’s faithfulness across generations. Scripture repeatedly shows the people gathered in unified thanksgiving during moments of rebuilding, dedication, victory, and revival.

Key Scriptures:

  • Ezra 3:11 — “With praise and thanksgiving they sang to the LORD.”
  • Nehemiah 12:27 — The dedication of Jerusalem’s wall included choirs and songs of thanksgiving.
  • 2 Chronicles 5:13 — Unified thanksgiving filled the temple with God’s glory.

Gratitude becomes contagious when the people of God raise their voices together.


10. Warning About the Absence of Thankfulness

The Bible does not only encourage gratitude—it warns against its absence. Ingratitude leads to spiritual dullness, forgetfulness, entitlement, and eventually rebellion. A thankless heart loses sight of God.

Key Scriptures:

  • Romans 1:21 — They “neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks”—and their hearts darkened.
  • 2 Timothy 3:2 — “Ungrateful” is listed among serious end-times sins.

Where thanksgiving fades, spiritual decline begins.


Reflection Questions

  1. What blessings am I overlooking or rushing past today?
  2. How can Thanksgiving become the first step of my worship each day?
  3. Which biblical example of thanksgiving most challenges me?
  4. What deliverances in my life deserve renewed thanks?
  5. What would change in my prayer life if thanksgiving came first?
  6. How does Christ’s salvation inspire gratitude in me right now?
  7. Where has thanklessness crept into my thinking or habits?
  8. Which Psalm best expresses my current gratitude?
  9. How can I strengthen others through shared thanksgiving?
  10. What spiritual danger might ingratitude be creating in my heart?

Closing Prayer

Father, we give You thanks.
You are good, and Your love endures forever.
Teach our hearts to remember Your mercies,
to see Your hand at work,
to recognize Your gifts,
to trust Your purposes,
and to praise You in all circumstances.
Forgive us for forgetfulness, for worry, and for ingratitude.
Form in us a spirit that overflows with thanksgiving—
in worship, in prayer, in suffering, and in joy.
May our gratitude reflect the grace of Christ
and become a light to those around us.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.


Post-Note — A Personal Thanksgiving Message

From Lewis

To all of you—my clients, friends, family members, neighbors, mentors, and church family—I want to offer a heartfelt word of thanks.

To my clients:
Thank you for your trust, your collaboration, your patience, and your willingness to let me walk beside you through complex decisions and meaningful work. Your confidence honors me, and your dedication strengthens me. Working with you is a privilege I do not take lightly.

To my friends:
Your loyalty, humor, encouragement, and companionship have carried me through seasons both light and heavy. Thank you for bringing joy into ordinary days and wisdom into difficult ones. Life is richer because of your presence.

To my family:
Thank you for love that never quits, for understanding when life gets busy, for prayers whispered on my behalf, and for believing in me even on the days I do not believe in myself. You are God’s greatest earthly blessing to me. Special thanks to Linda, the love of my life, for standing with me for almost 60 years.

To my neighbors:
Thank you for kindness, shared community, watchful care, and genuine friendship across fences, streets, and sidewalks. A neighborhood becomes a family because of people like you.

To my church family:
Thank you for prayers, for meals, for conversations, for fellowship, for spiritual guidance, and for walking this journey of faith alongside me. Your encouragement strengthens my soul; your faith inspires mine.

To all of you together:
Thank you for the grace, guidance, blessings, loyalty, and love you have poured into my life. I see the fingerprints of God in every interaction. I thank Him for you—and I thank you for being who you are.

The Night Before the First Thanksgiving

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI

Suggestion: if you have kids or grandkids of the right age, read as a play to set the tone for tomorrow. Also, use the opportunity to teach them about the Caravaggio-style paintings. You can describe a scene to ChatGPT and ask for this style of painting. It does a really nice job! LFM

Plymouth Colony, late autumn, 1621.
A cold wind slides under the poorly sealed door of a small timber-framed house. A fire crackles. The smell of roasting cornmeal and dried herbs hangs in the air. A father, Thomas, mends a wooden plate near the hearth. A mother, Alice, stirs a pot of broth.

Their two children—John (12) and Elizabeth (10)—are bundled together under a wool blanket made from whatever scraps their mother could stitch together during the previous winter, the one that took half their company.

Outside, the colony gathers quietly, preparing for the great feast planned to begin the next day.


Dialogue

JOHN:
Mother, Father… is it true what everyone says? That tomorrow shall be a day of thanksgiving? A real feast? After everything?

ALICE:
Aye, John. ’Tis true. A feast to thank the Lord for what He hath provided—after such a year as we have endured.

ELIZABETH:
But why tomorrow? Why now? We have never had such a thing before.

THOMAS (smiling gently):
Because this harvest—modest as it is—came only through God’s mercy, long labor, and the kindness of our Wampanoag neighbors. And because Governor Bradford and Captain Standish wished for a time of rejoicing after months of toil. We sowed in the spring, we reaped in the fall, and now we pause to give thanks.

JOHN:
Who will come? Only our own people? Or… the Wampanoag too?

THOMAS:
Massasoit, their great sachem (leader), and many of his men shall join us. They helped us plant corn when we knew not how, and showed us what herbs might heal the sick. We invited them, for without their aid, we might all have perished as many did last winter.

ELIZABETH (softly):
Like Mistress Carver… and the young ones who came on the Mayflower but never saw the spring.

ALICE (puts a hand on her daughter’s shoulder):
Yes, my girl. We remember them tomorrow as well. A thankful heart remembers sorrow too. It gives thanks even through it.

JOHN:
Will we have enough to feed so many? I hear Governor Bradford asked for a day of “recreation,” but recreation requires a full belly, does it not?

THOMAS (laughs):
Recreation is but his word for shooting games, races, and displays of skill. As for food—well, we have what the land gave us. Not much bread, for wheat grows poorly here. But there is corn, venison, fowl, and perhaps wild turkey if we are blessed to catch one. And the Wampanoag come with what they will bring.

ELIZABETH:
Will there be pie? Mistress Alden says in England there was always pie.

ALICE (smiles):
Pie? Nay, sweetheart. Not without sugar, nor much butter, nor proper ovens. But we shall have stewed pumpkin, perhaps sweetened with what little maple we bartered for. A sort of pudding, if you wish it so.

JOHN:
And how long will this thanksgiving last?

THOMAS:
Some say one day. Others say three. Truth be told, none know for certain, for such a feast has never been held here before. Governor Bradford says we shall feast “after the harvest,” and that implies more than one meal. And if Massasoit brings ninety men—as rumor has it—then three days may hardly suffice!

ELIZABETH:
Ninety? All warriors?

THOMAS:
Warriors, hunters, friends. Men who stand with us. They come not for battle but fellowship. After the treaty we made with Massasoit in the spring, we owe one another peace and aid. And so far, that peace has held.

JOHN (leaning forward eagerly):
Will there be musket firing? Captain Standish promised a demonstration!

THOMAS:
Aye, he means to show the Wampanoag our marksmanship. Though I tell you, their scouts can track deer in the dark better than any Englishman. It will be sport, not contest.

ELIZABETH:
Mother, what do you look forward to tomorrow?

ALICE (pauses thoughtfully):
Seeing our people sit together, not mourning but rejoicing. Hearing laughter where there was once only coughing. Knowing that for one night, none shall go hungry. And seeing you two children grow in a land that is finally giving us hope.

JOHN:
Father, what do you expect?

THOMAS:
I expect gratitude. Not for a grand table—for our table will be modest. But for the simple truth that we lived to harvest this year. That God preserved us when the sickness swept through our homes. And that the Wampanoag, once strangers, now promise to stand with us.

ELIZABETH:
Will we pray?

ALICE:
We shall pray before the meal, after the meal, and whenever our hearts are moved to. We owe the Lord that much and more.

JOHN:
But why do we call it a thanksgiving? Is it because we are giving thanks to God for the food?

THOMAS:
For the food, yes—but more than that. For survival. For friendship. For peace. For the chance to build a life here. Our people left Leiden and England to worship freely. That longing cost us dearly. Tomorrow we honor that sacrifice.

ELIZABETH:
Mother… do you think we shall still be here next year? All of us?

ALICE (pulls her close):
If the Lord wills it. But listen, child: tomorrow is not about fear of what may come. It is about thanks for what has been given already. Every day we survive here is a kind of miracle.

JOHN:
Father… will you tell the story again? The story of how we came to be here?

THOMAS (sets aside the wooden plate, voice solemn):
Very well. One last time before the feast.

He clears his throat.

The Mayflower brought us across the sea for sixty and six days. Tempests tossed us, food spoiled, and sickness spread. When we reached Cape Cod, we thanked God though we were far from where we meant to settle. We found no houses built, no fields plowed—only the wilderness.

Half our company died that winter. Yet by spring, God sent Samoset to our door—speaking English! And through him came Squanto, who taught us how to plant corn in this poor soil, with fish for fertilizer, and how to find eels and clams. Through Squanto we met Massasoit, and peace was made.

This harvest—our first—is the fruit of all those mercies.

ELIZABETH (quietly):
So tomorrow we thank God… for all the ways He saw us through.

THOMAS:
Aye, my girl. That is the heart of it.

JOHN:
And will we feast like kings?

ALICE (laughs warmly):
Like pilgrims, my son. Which is to say—we shall feast gladly, even if not grandly.

ELIZABETH:
Will you sing, Mother?

ALICE:
If the spirit moves me. Perhaps Psalm 100. “Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all ye lands.”

JOHN:
And what shall we children do?

THOMAS:
Eat. Play. Give thanks. And remember. One day, your children’s children may ask you what the first Thanksgiving was like. You shall tell them.

ELIZABETH:
Will they believe us?

THOMAS (with a grin):
Only if you describe it better than I ever could.

JOHN:
Then tomorrow, I will sit beside Massasoit himself and see how he smiles when he tastes roasted duck!

ALICE:
Mind your manners, John.

JOHN:
Yes, Mother.

ELIZABETH:
Father… do you think the Wampanoag give thanks too? Not just us?

THOMAS:
Oh yes. They thank the Creator for the harvest, the deer, the rivers, the berries, the corn. They celebrate their own harvest ceremonies. Tomorrow, in a way, both our peoples shall give thanks side by side.

ELIZABETH (leans against her mother):
That sounds… beautiful.

ALICE (softly):
It is.

A long, peaceful silence follows. Only the fire crackles.

THOMAS (whispering as he looks at his sleeping children):
Let them remember this night, Alice. The night before our first thanksgiving.

ALICE:
And let tomorrow be the beginning of many more.

The father places another log on the fire. Outside, the moon sits above the humble colony. Inside, the family sleeps—warm despite the cold—waiting for the dawn of a day that history will one day call The First Thanksgiving.

**After the Three Days:

What the Children Remember**

Three days later, the feast had ended. The fires had cooled. The sounds of musket volleys, laughter, drumming, and cheering had faded into memory. Plymouth had settled back into its quiet rhythm. But in the small timber house at the colony’s edge, the family gathered again near the hearth as the evening wind rattled the shutters.

JOHN (12) and ELIZABETH (10) sat cross-legged on the floor, shivering slightly in the early winter chill. Mother Alice was mending a torn sleeve. Father Thomas was binding two arrowheads to wooden shafts—gifts from a Wampanoag boy he’d met at the feast.

A comforting silence lingered, until Elizabeth finally spoke.


Dialogue: “What We Saw”

ELIZABETH:
Father… was that truly the end of it? The feast is done?

THOMAS:
Aye, sweetheart. Three days was enough for even the strongest among us. I dare say we shall not eat like that again until next year—if next year is as kind as this one.

JOHN (still full of restless excitement):
But Father—did you see Massasoit when he laughed at Standish’s musket misfire? He nearly dropped his plate! And the way his men cheered when the shooting contest was done!

THOMAS (smiling at the memory):
Aye, I saw it. ’Twas rare joy to see our peoples laugh together instead of watching one another in worry.

ELIZABETH:
The Wampanoag women brought so much food… more berries and corn cakes than I had ever seen. Why did they bring so much?

ALICE:
Because they wished to honor the peace between us. And perhaps because they saw our stores were not so plentiful as theirs. It was kindness, child. A generous kindness.

JOHN:
And the venison! I never saw so much meat in all my life. Five whole deer! They shared it freely.

THOMAS:
It is part of their custom. When a great meal is held, the hunters bring what they have. Hospitality, they call it—much like our own ways, though expressed differently.

ELIZABETH (looking into the fire):
I liked listening to their singing. It sounded like the wind through the trees.

ALICE (softly):
Yes. I thought it beautiful. Some said they sang thanks to the Creator, much as we did. Different words, different ways—but thanks all the same.

JOHN:
Father… do you think this peace will last?

THOMAS:
I pray it shall. Massasoit has kept his word. We have kept ours. We are two peoples sharing one land, and God willing, we shall find a way to live as neighbors.

ELIZABETH:
Do you think we will feast with them again next year?

THOMAS:
If the harvest is good, perhaps. But remember, my children—this first feast was not just celebration. It was relief. It was a breath drawn after hardship. It was the first time since we came here that joy outweighed sorrow.

ALICE (nodding):
These three days fed our spirits as much as our bodies.

JOHN:
I shall never forget it. The races, the shooting, the laughter, the dancing… I never thought so many people could smile at once.

ELIZABETH (gazing dreamily):
Or that strangers could feel like friends.

ALICE:
Hold fast to that thought, my girl. In this wild new land, friendship may be the difference between life and death.

THOMAS:
And between fear and hope.

A soft wind whistled through the cracks as the fire hissed. The children leaned against their parents.

JOHN:
Father… will history remember this? Will they write of these days?

THOMAS (looking thoughtfully into the flames):
Perhaps. Or perhaps only families like ours will remember. But even if no one writes a single word, it was still worth living. And worth giving thanks for.

ELIZABETH:
I want to remember every moment.

ALICE:
You shall. And someday, when your own children ask, you will tell them of the time when Pilgrims and Wampanoag sat at one table, shared one fire, and gave thanks together.

The fire crackled, warming their tired faces. The children drifted to sleep with memories of laughter, feasting, and newfound friendship—memories that would stay with them long after the wilderness around them grew quiet again.

The Spirit of the Texas Way: Common Sense Over Cynicism

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI

https://www.utexas.edu/academics/texas-statement-academic-integrity


When the University of Texas faculty released “The Texas Way: Academic Freedom and Its Responsibilities,” the intent was unmistakable. It was not a legal document, a political maneuver, or a coded message. It was a straightforward declaration of principle — that teachers should pursue truth, teach honestly, avoid indoctrination, and respect differing views. In an age that seems to doubt everything, that message should have been unifying. Instead, predictably, it became a target for some.

Almost as soon as it appeared, a familiar cycle began. Commentators dissected every phrase, searching for a hidden agenda. Lawyers and critics combed through the text, parsing its meaning like a contract instead of a creed. Words such as “balanced,” “germane,” and “indoctrination” were treated not as plain appeals to fairness but as traps waiting to be sprung. What should have been seen as a reaffirmation of trust was instead viewed with suspicion. The irony is that the statement itself warned against exactly that — the habit of turning open discussion into a minefield of motives. Why can’t a person say to another, “Be Good!” and more explanation be required?

There is a deeper issue here, and it goes far beyond one university document. We are living in a time when moral clarity itself is treated as a threat. The more plainly something is said, the more certain people become that it must be hiding something. Cynicism has become a reflex. Clarity invites attack, and sincerity is mistaken for strategy. The result is a culture where even the simplest affirmations of integrity are smothered under layers of analysis and doubt.


Reflection: The Spirit of the Texas Way

There is something discouraging about watching a plain statement of good sense be treated like a crime scene. The University of Texas faculty’s “Texas Way” declaration could hardly be clearer: pursue truth, teach honestly, avoid indoctrination, and respect differing views. That’s not controversial; that’s civilization. Yet the moment such a statement appears, a familiar pattern unfolds — analysts dissect every word as though it hides an ulterior motive, and critics line up to prove offense where none exists.

This reflex to litigate language before listening to meaning reveals more about the critics than the text. The urge to find fault, to anticipate grievance, to pre-arm for battle — these are habits of distrust, not of scholarship. They reduce moral principles to procedural puzzles. Academic freedom, like integrity, cannot be safeguarded by endless disclaimers; otherwise, it turns into an extended shelf of IRS-type regulations. It thrives when communities act in good faith, understand the plain meaning of words, and hold one another to standards of fairness and honesty without needing a lawyer present.

The “Texas Way” speaks to the better side of our civic character — one that assumes clarity of intent and answers good faith with good faith. The critics would do well to read it not as a legal brief, but as a declaration of shared trust: that we can teach, learn, and reason together without the perpetual suspicion that every word hides a trap. Common sense, not cynicism, is what keeps academic freedom alive. Is a professor who doesn’t know the difference between teaching and proselytizing really qualified to be in the position? Can they teach a course on Political Science and still have the students guessing their political affiliations by the end of the semester?


That reflection captures something essential — not only about the Texas Way but about the times in which we live. Academic freedom, like public trust, cannot be preserved by contracts alone. It depends on the willingness of people to take each other at their word. When faculty, students, and citizens stop doing that, no number of policies will save the principle. Legal language can define conduct, but only good faith sustains community.

The tendency to attack rather than understand reveals a deeper insecurity — a loss of confidence in our shared moral vocabulary. Once upon a time, we knew what words like integrity, fairness, and truth meant without needing to footnote them. We trusted that an honest statement of intent was just that: honest. Today, however, clarity is treated as provocation, and good intentions are met with preemptive suspicion. It’s a disease of doubt masquerading as vigilance.

The Texas Way stands as a modest antidote to that cynicism. It does not demand agreement on every issue; it asks only for honesty, humility, and respect in how disagreement occurs. It reminds educators — and the public — that freedom and responsibility are two sides of the same coin. One without the other leads to either tyranny or chaos. It also reminds us that universities, like democracies, depend on trust as their unseen infrastructure. When that trust collapses, rules multiply — and meaning drains away.

We would do well to recover the older Texas instinct: to take words at face value, to assume good faith until proven otherwise, and to remember that plain speech is not a flaw but a virtue. Texans once built towns, companies, and churches on a handshake — not because they were naïve, but because they believed a man’s word was his bond. That same cultural DNA can still guide the life of the mind.

The Texas Way doesn’t need to be “interpreted.” It needs to be lived. Its call to pursue truth, teach honestly, avoid indoctrination, and respect differing views is not a political statement. It is a cultural one — an appeal to rediscover our shared sense of fairness and restraint. If every reader applied those words in spirit, rather than searching for loopholes, the meaning would be self-evident and the controversy nonexistent.

Common sense is not beneath academia; it is its foundation. The more we replace trust with suspicion, the more we destroy the very freedom we claim to defend. Let the lawyers have their policies and the cynics have their doubts. The rest of us can still recognize a plain truth when we see it — and honor it for what it is.

How Do You Know?

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI
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A dialogue between a granddaughter and her grandmother



Scene:
The kitchen is quiet now, the light outside turning golden. The teapot is empty, but the warmth between them lingers. The grandmother leans back, smiling softly at her granddaughter — the kind of smile that carries both memory and hope.


Granddaughter:
Grandma, you’ve told me what love feels like when it’s real. But how do you really know if it’s right before you say “I do”?

Grandmother:
That’s a wise question, sweetheart — wiser than most your age ask. Knowing isn’t about a single moment. It’s about the patterns you see when the emotions calm down.

Granddaughter:
What kind of patterns?

Grandmother (counting gently on her fingers):
Start with faith. If your heart is anchored in God, make sure his is, too. You can’t walk together if one’s following the light and the other’s still chasing shadows. Shared faith doesn’t guarantee an easy life, but it gives you the same foundation when the storms come.

Granddaughter:
So religion really does matter?

Grandmother:
It matters more than you think. It shapes how you forgive, how you raise children, how you see the world. Without that common ground, even small differences start to feel like miles.

Granddaughter:
Okay… what else?

Grandmother:
Money. Not how much he earns, but how he treats it. Does he plan, save, and give? Or does he spend like there’s no tomorrow? Marriage magnifies everything — especially money habits. You want to face life as partners, not as each other’s accountant.

Granddaughter:
That’s practical, Grandma.

Grandmother (grinning):
So is love, darling. It’s not all candlelight and violins. It’s budgets, calendars, and choosing to be kind when you’re both tired.

Granddaughter:
And I guess it matters how you treat each other in public too?

Grandmother:
Oh yes — never, never speak badly about each other to anyone. The minute you let criticism slip into someone else’s ears, you give them power over your marriage. Protect one another’s reputation like it’s your own.

Granddaughter:
What about family?

Grandmother:
You marry more than the person — you marry their whole world. Watch how he treats his parents and siblings, and how they treat him. Family is the soil that shaped him. And when you bring him home, see how he fits among your people. If there’s no respect both ways, there’ll be cracks later.

Granddaughter:
That’s a lot to think about.

Grandmother:
It should be. Also, watch how he treats strangers — the waitress, the cashier, the stray dog. The smallest gestures reveal the biggest truths.

Granddaughter:
What about when life gets stressful?

Grandmother:
That’s when the real person comes out. See how he reacts under pressure — with patience or temper, faith or fear. The right one won’t crumble at every hardship. He’ll steady you when you start to shake.

Granddaughter:
And kids?

Grandmother:
Talk about it early. Whether he wants them, how he imagines raising them, what he values in a home. You can’t build together if you’re dreaming in opposite directions. You will be married singles.

Granddaughter:
You always say habits tell the truth.

Grandmother:
They do. Look for balance. Someone who knows moderation — with food, drink, work, and even opinions. Extremes wear people out. Balance keeps peace alive.

Granddaughter:
What about his purpose — like, his job or calling?

Grandmother:
A man who feels called to something greater than himself carries a steadier joy. It doesn’t have to be glamorous. But it has to mean something. When life gets heavy, purpose keeps him from drifting. How does he handle disillusionment? It WILL come.

Granddaughter:
Can he talk about emotions? Like fear, grief, or joy?

Grandmother:
He needs to. If he can’t name what he feels, he’ll turn silence into walls. Find someone who can talk through pain, who can admit fear, who can celebrate joy without shame. That’s emotional honesty — and that’s love’s backbone.

Granddaughter:
What about his heroes?

Grandmother:
Ask who he admires. A man’s role models are the map to his values. If he looks up to people of integrity — who serve others quietly — that’s a good sign.

Granddaughter:
And self-awareness?

Grandmother:
Oh, that’s gold. Can he say, “I was wrong”? Can he admit when he’s hurt someone and try to make it right? Pride destroys more love stories than infidelity ever could.

Granddaughter (pausing):
Grandma, this is a lot to remember.

Grandmother (smiling warmly):
It is — because marriage isn’t luck. It’s wisdom, patience, and prayer. But I’ll tell you one last thing — maybe the most important of all.

Granddaughter:
What’s that?

Grandmother (leaning close):
If the boy — or the man — isn’t just as curious about you… your faith, your family, your hopes, your habits, your fears, your calling — if he doesn’t want to know your story and your soul — then make sure he knows without any doubt: you are not someone to be half-known. You are someone to be understood, cherished, and respected in full — or not at all.

Oh, one more thing: No regrets. Strive to make wise choices. The best thing you want to be able to say when you get to be my age is “No regrets!”


(The granddaughter nods slowly. The kettle whistles again, and her grandmother rises to refill it — calm, steady, radiant with the kind of wisdom only a lifetime of love can teach.)

The Divine Conspiracy: The Beatitudes and the Blessed Life in God

Suggested by Dr Bobby Waite; Written by Lewis McLain & AI

A Study Edition Inspired by Dallas Willard



🌄 I. Setting the Scene — The Mountain and the Message

It was early in the ministry of Jesus. Word of His healings and authority had spread through Galilee. Crowds followed—farmers, fishermen, soldiers, widows, and scholars—all hungry for something more than spectacle.

When He saw them gathering by the Sea of Galilee, Jesus withdrew to a hillside. The slope formed a natural amphitheater where sound carried on the breeze. He sat down, the posture of a rabbi ready to teach, and His disciples drew near. Behind them stood the multitudes—hopeful, skeptical, wounded.

This is the setting of the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5–7), the heart of the Gospel story where the Teacher begins to describe life under the rule of God. Like Moses ascending Sinai, Jesus now delivers a new law—not on stone tablets, but upon human hearts. Yet this Lawgiver does not shout from thunderclouds; He speaks softly, face to face.

The sermon opens not with command but with blessing. The Master looks at His disciples—men and women of no special rank—and calls them the seed of a new creation.

“Seeing the crowds, He went up on a mountain, and when He sat down, His disciples came to Him. Then He began to teach them.” (Matthew 5:1–2)

Thus begins what Dallas Willard calls “the divine conspiracy”—the quiet, redemptive invasion of heaven into the ordinary world through those who choose to live as Christ’s apprentices.


🕊️ II. The Heart of the Divine Conspiracy

Willard writes that Jesus’ teaching unveils a simple but radical truth: the Kingdom of God is available now. It’s not about escape to heaven later, but participation with God in the present moment. The Sermon on the Mount is therefore the curriculum for life in the Kingdom—not rules for unreachable saints, but descriptions of ordinary people transformed by extraordinary grace.

“Jesus’ teaching about the kingdom is not an invitation to wait for heaven later; it’s a call to live under heaven’s rule now.” — Dallas Willard


📖 III. The Beatitudes — The Great Reversal

Each Beatitude opens with Blessed—the Greek makarios, meaning deeply happy, whole, or flourishing. Jesus pronounces God’s favor upon those the world overlooks or despises. Willard teaches that these are not virtues to attain, but conditions where grace appears. They describe what life looks like when heaven’s power meets human weakness.


1. “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:3)

To be poor in spirit is to know your need of God.
The self-sufficient rely on their own strength; the poor in spirit rely on grace.

Willard’s Insight:

“The poor in spirit are those who have learned that their life is not manageable on their own. They stand ready to receive the Kingdom as a gift, not as a wage.”

Reflection:
When have you discovered that self-reliance is not enough?
How did that humility become a doorway to grace?


2. “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4)

Mourning is not weakness—it is sacred honesty.
Those who grieve over loss, sin, or injustice open their hearts to God’s healing compassion.

Willard’s Insight:
“The world says, ‘Get over it.’ Jesus says, ‘Bring it to Me.’ Mourning becomes holy when it leads us into the arms of divine comfort.”

Reflection:
What sorrow has drawn you closer to God?
How might you become an instrument of comfort to others?


3. “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.” (Matthew 5:5)

Meekness is not weakness but power under control.
The meek trust God’s care more than their own control.

Willard’s Insight:
“The meek live without the need to manage others. They inherit the earth because they are content to let God govern it.”

Reflection:
Where do you sense God calling you to release control and rest in His authority?


4. “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.” (Matthew 5:6)

This is the longing for the world to be set right—within and without.

Willard’s Insight:
“This hunger is evidence of life with God already stirring within you. He alone satisfies the appetite He awakens.”

Reflection:
What injustices make your spirit ache?
How can you channel that hunger into faithful prayer and action?


5. “Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.” (Matthew 5:7)

Mercy interrupts the world’s cycle of revenge.

Willard’s Insight:
“The merciful dwell in a rhythm of grace—they forgive because they live forgiven.”

Reflection:
Who in your life needs mercy from you today?
How can compassion replace resentment?


6. “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” (Matthew 5:8)

Purity of heart means singleness of desire—the will set wholly toward God.

Willard’s Insight:
“To be pure in heart is to will one thing: the good of God. When the eye of the soul is clear, everything becomes luminous with His presence.”

Reflection:
What distractions divide your heart?
How can simplicity of purpose restore your spiritual sight?


7. “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

Peacemakers are builders of reconciliation, bearers of God’s family likeness.

Willard’s Insight:
“The peace of Christ is not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative goodwill.”

Reflection:
Where can you build bridges instead of walls?
How might you embody the Father’s peace in tense spaces?


8. “Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:10)

Faithfulness invites friction with the world’s systems—but God’s presence sustains the faithful.

Willard’s Insight:
“Persecution is not failure; it is confirmation that the Kingdom has taken root.”

Reflection:
When has standing for truth cost you something?
What courage grows in hardship?


9. “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of Me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven.” (Matthew 5:11–12)

Now the blessings become personal—addressed to every follower.

Willard’s Insight:
“Joy in persecution is not denial of pain but recognition of purpose. You are living from an eternal horizon.”

Reflection:
How can you keep joy alive when misunderstood or maligned?
What eternal perspective steadies your heart?


🧭 IV. Discipleship as Apprenticeship

To Willard, discipleship means apprenticeship—learning to live your actual life as Jesus would live it if He were you. It is not belief alone but training of the heart. He outlines three essentials:

  • Vision – seeing the Kingdom as real and desirable.
  • Intention – deciding to live as Christ’s student.
  • Means – practicing disciplines that reshape the inner life (prayer, solitude, service, study).

This “curriculum for Christlikeness” transforms not just conduct but character.


🌿 V. The Hidden Life in God

The “divine conspiracy” is that God’s revolution happens quietly—from the inside out.
It unfolds in unseen obedience, ordinary kindness, unseen faithfulness. It is “hidden” because the Kingdom’s greatest victories are inward: forgiveness over hatred, humility over pride, patience over fury.

“The revolution of Jesus is one of character, and it proceeds in secret until it transforms everything.” — Willard

Those who live this way already share in eternal life—the with-God life that begins now and never ends.


💬 VI. Discussion & Application

  1. Which Beatitude most challenges your current view of “success”?
  2. How might the Kingdom of God reshape your response to suffering or insult?
  3. What practice could you begin this week to strengthen mercy, purity, or peace in your daily routine?
  4. How does Jesus’ personal instruction of His disciples encourage your own apprenticeship today?

🕊️ VII. Poetic Reflection — The Quiet Kingdom

On a hill above the waters, where Galilee’s winds still sigh,
He sat upon the green earth, as heaven leaned close by.
No trumpet sounded His Kingdom, no banners caught the sun—
Yet love began its quiet reign, and the world was being won.

He spoke not to princes or scholars, but to hearts that barely stand,
To fishermen, widows, wanderers—the dust of a weary land.
He called them blessed, not broken; He named them heirs of grace,
And light began to shimmer on each upturned face.

Blessed are the poor in spirit, who bring nothing but their need;
For God will clothe their emptiness and sow His living seed.

Blessed are the mourners, whose tears the Father keeps;
For He will bend beside them, and comfort while they weep.

Blessed are the meek, whose strength is calm and mild;
The earth will bloom beneath their hands, the humble reconciled.

Blessed are the hungry hearts, that crave for what is right;
They’ll taste the bread of justice baked in heaven’s light.

Blessed are the merciful, who let forgiveness flow;
They drink the cup of kindness only mercy knows.

Blessed are the pure in heart, whose eyes are clean and still;
They’ll see the face of God in every field and hill.

Blessed are the peacemakers, who end the ancient fight;
Children of the Father, they walk in holy light.

Blessed are the persecuted, whose faith the world disowns;
Their crowns are forged of suffering; their thrones are living stones.

And still He whispers softly above the clash and din:
“My Kingdom is among you; it grows from deep within.”

Not built of force or empire, not won by sword or gain—
It rises where the heart surrenders, and love alone shall reign.

The crowd went home in silence, but heaven had begun;
The meek looked tall, the mourners sang, the poor outshone the sun.
And though the ages darken, His promise still is true—
The Kingdom’s quiet power still moves in me and you.


🌅 VIII. Closing Thought

The Divine Conspiracy is the Gospel’s hidden heartbeat:
God’s Kingdom is not far away—it is available now.
To live as Jesus’ apprentice is to walk daily in the light of that reality,
to join the ongoing miracle of heaven quietly transforming earth.

Morning Has Broken: The Song That Welcomed the Dawn

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI

Oh, how I loved Cat Stevens from the first time I heard him. I saw him the first time when he performed in Fort Worth in the 1970s. It listened to his albums over and over. It was clear he was searching for spiritual clarity. He apparently found a solution for himself after his brother gave him a copy of the Quran. After his conversion, he gave away or destroyed all of his awards and guitars. He changed his name to Yusuf Islam. Decades later, his adult son found his guitar on the market and bought it. It is said that Yusuf immediately started playing. A few years ago, Linda and I flew to Washington, DC, where he played to an audience at the Kennedy Center. It was a wonderful trip back to hear his classics again. LFM



Morning Has Broken: The Song That Welcomed the Dawn

I. A Hymn Born in Simplicity (1931)

In 1931, British author Eleanor Farjeon was asked to craft new words for the traditional Scottish-Gaelic tune Bunessan (from the Isle of Mull). She wrote Morning Has Broken—three short stanzas that treat each sunrise as a fresh echo of Creation. Birds, dew, gardens, and “the Word” cast ordinary morning light as a sacrament of renewal. First printed in Songs of Praise (1931), the hymn traveled quietly through hymnals for decades.

II. Steven to Cat Stevens: Crisis, Silence, and Re-making (1968–1970)

Steven Demetre Georgiou—later known as Cat Stevens and today as Yusuf Islam—grew up over his father’s Greek-Cypriot restaurant in London, with a Swedish mother, a pencil and sketchpad never far from reach. By 18 he had a record deal; by 1967 he’d had pop hits and relentless touring. Then, in 1969, illness struck hard: tuberculosis with a collapsed lung. He was hospitalized for months and then sent into nearly a year of convalescence and isolation.

That enforced stillness became a hinge in his life. He read widely (mysticism, philosophy, scripture), sketched and wrote, questioned fame, and began composing the introspective songs that would define his second career: “Father and Son,” “Wild World,” “On the Road to Find Out,” “Into White.” When he returned, it was with a new sound—acoustic, intimate, spiritually searching—and a new partnership with producer Paul Samwell-Smith. The comeback albums followed in quick succession:

  • Mona Bone Jakon (1970): the quiet re-entry.
  • Tea for the Tillerman (1970): a masterpiece of spare folk-rock and spiritual longing.
  • Teaser and the Firecat (1971): the companion volume—gentler, sunlit, and home to “Moonshadow,” “Peace Train,” and “Morning Has Broken.”
    Stevens even painted the cover art—a child (Teaser) and a cat (Firecat)—an outward sign of the homemade sincerity of the era.


III. Finding a Hymn in a Hymnal (1971)

As Teaser and the Firecat neared completion, Stevens and Samwell-Smith wanted one more track that sounded like gratitude. Leafing through a hymnbook, Stevens found Farjeon’s Morning Has Broken. The text was brief, without a pop chorus, but it said exactly what his convalescent soul had learned: each day is a divine fresh start. “It fell into my lap,” he later said—less an idea than a gift arriving right on time.

IV. The Recording: Piano Like First Light

The arrangement needed light. Enter Rick Wakeman, a young session pianist (soon to join Yes). He improvised the now-famous piano prelude and interlude—those flowing, ascending figures that feel like sun lifting fog. Acoustic guitar, a modest rhythm bed, and Stevens’ hushed vocal kept the hymn’s humility while giving it living warmth. (Wakeman was initially uncredited, a footnote he’s mentioned ever since—ironically fitting for a song about unadorned grace.)

V. Release, Reception, and Reach (1971–present)

Issued late in 1971, the single bloomed slowly and then everywhere—Top-10 in the U.K., No. 6 on the U.S. Hot 100, and No. 1 on Adult Contemporary radio. It became a rare bridge between sacred hymnody and popular song, sung at school assemblies and charting on secular stations; used at weddings, dedications, and memorials; and re-introducing Farjeon’s text to churches that had forgotten it. For Stevens, the song sits on the arc that runs from illness → inward search → art as gratitude → later faith commitments and humanitarian work. For listeners, it proved a pop song can simply be thank you and still move the world.

VI. What the Verses Say (Paraphrased and Interpreted)

Verse 1 — The first morning, again
Morning opens like the world’s first dawn; birds break the silence like that first bird. Let all our singing and this very dawn become praise—new life springing from God’s speaking.

Verse 2 — Rain, light, and the garden
New rain gleams in sun; first dew pearls on fresh grass. Praise for sweetness in the watered garden—made whole where the Holy One has walked.

Verse 3 — Light we share, life we begin
Sunlight is ours; morning is ours—children of the same Light seen in Eden. So let joy rise with each dawn: every morning is God’s re-creation of the day.

Coda (Stevens’ reprise on record)
The album performance circles back to the opening stanza—musically and theologically saying: the first morning returns with every sunrise.

VII. Why It Endures

  • Simplicity that shelters depth: Three small verses, vast theology—creation as ongoing gift.
  • A voice recovered from silence: After TB and a season of doubt, Stevens chose wonder. You can hear recovery in the restraint.
  • Piano that paints light: Wakeman’s intro has become the sound of “daybreak” for multiple generations.
  • Common grace: It belongs equally to church pews and kitchen radios, to choirs and children.

VIII. Closing

Morning Has Broken is the sound of someone who nearly lost breath learning to love breath again. Farjeon’s parish hymn found its pilgrim singer; Stevens’ long quiet found its prayer. And the rest of us found a way to say, with the first bird and the last chord: thank You for today.



Morning has broken like the first morning
Blackbird has spoken like the first bird
Praise for the singing, praise for the morning
Praise for them springing fresh from the world

Sweet the rains new fall, sunlit from Heaven
Like the first dewfall on the first grass
Praise for the sweetness of the wet garden
Sprung in completeness where His feet pass

Mine is the sunlight, mine is the morning
Born of the one light, Eden saw play
Praise with elation, praise every morning
God’s recreation of the new day

Morning has broken like the first morning
Blackbird has spoken like the first bird
Praise for the singing, praise for the morning
Praise for them springing fresh from the world

Come to Me as a Child: The Invitation from Christ and Its Meaning Today

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI



Introduction: The Most Disarming Invitation

Of all the invitations Jesus ever gave, none is more tender or more revealing than His call to “Let the little children come to Me.” In a world that prized power, rank, and age, Jesus placed a child in the midst of grown men and declared that the way into His Kingdom was not through merit, intellect, or strength—but through simplicity of heart. The Gospels record this lesson several times (Matthew 18:1-5; 19:13-15; Mark 10:13-16; Luke 18:15-17), which tells us how central it is to the heart of the Christian life.


The Scene: Greatness Redefined

In Matthew 18, the disciples were debating who would be greatest in heaven. Their conversation revealed an adult obsession with comparison and hierarchy. Jesus interrupted their ambitions by calling over a small child—someone overlooked, unranked, and powerless.

“Unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3)

In one sentence, Jesus inverted the value system of His listeners. Greatness, He said, begins with humility. To “become like children” is to admit dependence and trust rather than display status. The Kingdom of God is not climbed into; it is received with open hands.

Reflection Questions

  1. What ambitions or comparisons most distract you from a childlike faith?
  2. How do humility and dependence challenge our culture’s idea of success?
  3. In what ways might “becoming smaller” actually enlarge your soul?

The Heart of the Matter: Childlike, Not Childish

Jesus did not praise immaturity, ignorance, or naivety. He praised childlikeness—qualities of heart that adults tend to lose: trust, wonder, forgiveness, curiosity, and the ability to be taught. A child depends without shame, asks without hesitation, and forgives without keeping score. These traits mirror the faith that connects us to God.

When He said, “Anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it” (Mark 10:15), Jesus was describing an approach, not an age. The requirement is not to remain small but to remain soft—humble enough to receive grace instead of earning it.

Reflection Questions

  1. Which childlike quality—trust, wonder, forgiveness, curiosity—do you find hardest to retain?
  2. How can you cultivate teachability before God this week?
  3. What would your worship look like if you came with that childlike heart?

The Blessing: His Hands on the Children

In both Mark 10 and Matthew 19, people brought children to Jesus, and the disciples tried to push them away. Perhaps they thought He had more important work to do. But Jesus became indignant—a rare word for His righteous anger. He insisted, “Do not hinder them.” He gathered the children into His arms, laid His hands on them, and blessed them.

That gesture still defines the heart of Christian ministry. To hinder a child—by neglect, cynicism, or hardness—is to obstruct the very image of faith God desires. Every time the Church welcomes the least, protects the vulnerable, or teaches with gentleness, it reenacts that moment of blessing.

Reflection Questions

  1. Who in your life might be “hindered” from coming to Jesus by neglect or discouragement?
  2. How can your words or presence become an open invitation instead?
  3. What practical steps could your church take to bless children and the childlike?

The Application: What It Means Today

1. Trust Over Control

Modern life prizes control—plans, schedules, data, mastery. Yet the Gospel calls us to trust. A child steps forward because the parent’s voice is enough. To follow Jesus is to release the illusion of control and to rest in His character.

2. Wonder Over Cynicism

Children see beauty where adults see routine. Faith flourishes when we regain our sense of wonder—when sunrise, Scripture, and song awaken gratitude instead of fatigue. Cynicism may sound sophisticated, but it cannot worship.

3. Relationship Over Performance

Children do not earn their place at the table; they belong by birth and love. In the same way, believers are accepted not by performance but by adoption into God’s family. Our worth is not negotiated—it is bestowed.

4. Presence Over Hurry

A child notices the moment; an adult is often elsewhere. Jesus invited children to come to Him—a call to be present. Prayer and worship are not tasks but encounters. To come as a child is to arrive unhurried, eager, and attentive.

Reflection Questions

  1. Where in your life are you trying to control what only God can direct?
  2. When was the last time you paused to experience pure wonder before God?
  3. How can you practice “presence over hurry” in your daily prayer or worship?

The Challenge: Becoming Small in a Big World

It is striking that Jesus did not tell the children to become like the disciples, but the disciples to become like the children. In every generation, the Church is tempted to mirror worldly hierarchies—titles, influence, eloquence, size. But the Kingdom belongs to those who kneel, not to those who climb. To be childlike is not to be weak but to be free from pretense. It is the posture that allows grace to enter.

Reflection Questions

  1. Where might pride or performance still keep you from kneeling?
  2. How does God invite you to rest in grace rather than achievement?
  3. What would your leadership, parenting, or ministry look like if shaped by childlike humility?

I love you, Ben, and will always be by your side.

Conclusion: The Open Arms of Christ

When Jesus said, “Let the little children come to Me,” He was not limiting His invitation to a specific age. He was revealing the doorway of heaven. The arms that once cradled children on a Galilean hillside would soon stretch open on a cross to welcome all of God’s children home.

To come as a child is to come with empty hands, honest eyes, and an open heart. In that humility, we find not only the entrance to the Kingdom—but the embrace of the King Himself.


A Prayer of Childlike Faith

Lord Jesus,
Teach me to come to You not with pride but with peace,
not with credentials but with curiosity.
Make my heart soft again—able to wonder, to trust, to forgive.
Strip away the layers of cynicism that I have called wisdom,
and restore to me the joy of simple belief.
As a child finds rest in a father’s arms,
let me find rest in Yours.
Amen.

The Hands That Speak: The Ministry of Those Who Serve the Deaf

Based on a letter from Lewis McLain to Pastor Sam One Year Ago Today.


Jenna Glory

Across sanctuaries, classrooms, and living rooms, there are remarkable people whose work often goes unnoticed yet speaks as loud as any sermon. They are the ones who serve the deaf — interpreters, teachers, and companions who translate not only words but compassion, joy, and the very movement of the Holy Spirit into a living language of hands and heart.

These servants of God live in a world where communication is not limited to sound but expanded by sight, rhythm, and spirit. Their hands become instruments of connection, conducting a symphony of faith that transcends the barriers of silence. In every gesture and facial expression, they proclaim that God’s voice cannot be confined to a single sense. They embody the truth that faith comes not only by hearing, but by believing — and by seeing love made visible.

Those who minister to the deaf practice a form of worship that requires complete presence. To interpret a sermon, a hymn, or a prayer is to listen deeply and respond with the whole body. It is worship in motion. Each word must be felt, understood, and then released through graceful precision. That requires more than technical skill — it takes empathy, reverence, and a heart completely surrendered to the Spirit.

Many of us in church may not realize that while we experience the service through sound, others around us are experiencing the same Spirit through light, touch, and motion. The same gospel is preached in two languages — voice and hand — yet both point to the same God who speaks to every heart.

A Living Example: My Church in McKinney

I have seen this truth with my own eyes. We often sit behind the deaf seating section. The Holy Spirit is all over, in, around, and through our church in McKinney. You can’t listen to the musicians play and the choir and worship leaders sing without being moved by the Holy Spirit. You can’t listen to Pastor Sam preach, or to any of our ministry staff speak, without feeling that the words of the Holy Spirit are flowing through them. The genuineness is visible.

There is no doubt in my heart — He’s real. He is a Spirit made tangible through our gifted leaders. Almost touchable, and certainly able to be breathed in.

But if there ever were a doubt, that doubt would disappear the moment you looked over at the Living Spirit working through the special people like Jenna Glory, signing for the deaf. They glow with a light not often seen in this world. They move with a rhythm that surpasses even the songs and words. It is God alive — vibrant, warm, and powerful.

A Conversation with Luella

Just yesterday, I sat next to a wonderful person named Luella Funderburg at an afternoon church gathering while we watched the Cowboys play. I asked her a few questions, and before long, I learned something extraordinary. She and her husband Ken drive in from Sherman, about thirty miles away. Their former church didn’t have a deaf ministry — but ours does.

Louella told me she teaches a Sunday school class for deaf members of our congregation, ranging from teenagers to senior adults. She even earned a college degree in ministering to the deaf. Truly amazing!

As she shared her story, I couldn’t help but see how her quiet faithfulness mirrors the Spirit I see every Sunday on the stage — hands alive with meaning, faces radiant with joy. Through her, and through all who serve like her, the Spirit continues to speak. The experience is a blessing. I was enriched by our conversation.

A Prayer of Gratitude

Lord, bless Your servants — Sam, Justin, Hollye, the choir, the musicians, and especially those wonderful signers who bring Your Word to life in ways that transcend hearing.

Thank You for people like Louella, who devote their lives to ensuring that every person, regardless of hearing, can feel Your presence fully.

Their ministry reminds me that worship is not limited to sound waves — it’s about Spirit waves. The Holy Spirit doesn’t just fill the air; He fills the heart.

Poem: “The Hands That Praise”

They do not shout, yet mountains move,
Their silence hums a holy groove.
Each motion breathes what words can’t say,
The gospel seen in hands that pray.

They catch the rhythm of unseen choirs,
Their fingers blaze like tongues of fire.
Each sign a psalm, each glance a hymn,
Each movement light, not shadow, dim.

For where we hear, they see the song,
And teach us where our hearts belong.
Through them, the Spirit softly sings,
With holy breath upon their wings.

O ministers whose hands reveal
The love no voice could e’er conceal,
May God renew your strength each day—
The world is blessed by what you say.

Genuine Goodness: The Quiet Strength of a Christian Life

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” — Matthew 5:16

There are people whose very presence calms a room. They do not demand attention, yet they seem to fill every space they enter with warmth. Their strength is not loud; their influence is not forced. They lead not through speeches or titles, but through the steady rhythm of goodness that flows from a heart aligned with God.



One such man is Harvey Oaxaca — a teacher, coach, administrator, mentor, and friend whose life continues to remind us that genuine goodness still has a face.


Roots of Character

Long before Harvey led Sunday school at First Baptist Church of McKinney, he was a young man in cleats, running plays on the fields of McMurry University in Abilene, Texas. There he earned his degree in education and became a record-setting running back and team captain.

After graduation, Harvey poured that same discipline into a lifetime of service in education. He spent more than four decades as a teacher, coach, and administrator, including twenty-three years in the McKinney Independent School District. He taught in classrooms, guided student-athletes, and eventually helped lead schools with the same calm faith and fairness that have always defined him.

Harvey wasn’t just fast — he was faithful. Teammates recall how he helped others up before celebrating his own touchdown. By graduation he had earned a place among McMurry’s top rushers and, years later, induction into the McMurry Athletic Hall of Honor.

But his greatest victories weren’t measured in yards gained — they were measured in character formed. The discipline of the athlete became the discipline of the servant; the humility of the player who lifted others became the humility of the man who now lifts spirits.

“Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize.” — 1 Corinthians 9:24

Harvey’s race never ended at the goal line — it became a lifelong run toward goodness, guided by faith.


Faith That Speaks Softly

At First Baptist McKinney, Harvey leads his Sunday school class with that same steady resolve. He doesn’t dominate the room; he shepherds it. His teaching and demeanor are more conversation than lecture — he listens, nods, and draws wisdom even from the quietest voice in the circle.

“Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom.” — James 3:13

There is no pretense in Harvey’s faith. It’s as real as the man himself — genuine, unguarded, and shaped by decades of walking with the Lord.


Goodness in Action

When Harvey extends his hand, it’s never just a handshake — it’s a blessing. I’ll never forget watching him greet my three grandchildren as each graduated from high school over the recent years. One by one, he congratulated them with a personal acknowledgment, offering encouragement as if they were his own.

That’s Harvey: goodness not as ceremony but as instinct — quiet, consistent, sincere.

His close friend and co-leader of the class, Dr. Bobby Waite, put it best:

“Harvey’s only fault is he can’t say no to a request or a need. It breaks his heart if he’s double-booked. One way or another, he makes things happen to be there to serve.”

That truth showed itself again recently when Harvey returned to class after a hospital stay for a hip issue. As he stood before his friends, tears filled his eyes. Overcome with gratitude for every prayer and note of concern, he said he could not imagine a world without his church and his class. In that moment — unguarded, grateful, and full of grace — his true goodness was once again on display for all to see. One does not have to guess where his heart is.


Loved by All

To know Harvey is to be drawn to him. His life has touched countless others — students, church members, colleagues, and neighbors.

As one friend said, “You can’t be around Harvey and not believe in goodness again.”

In a world that rewards charisma, Harvey’s quiet strength stands apart. He reminds us that greatness is not about being seen — it’s about being genuine.


The Spirit of Goodness

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” — Galatians 5:22-23

Harvey lives those words as naturally as breathing — steady as his steps once were on the football field, steady as his walk now is with God.

His life testifies that Christian goodness is not dramatic or loud; it’s faithful, consistent, and full of quiet joy.


A Legacy of Grace

When people speak of Harvey, they don’t recall titles or positions; they recall presence — his smile, his kindness, his reliability. He’s the kind of man whose example lingers long after he’s left the room.

“Well done, good and faithful servant… Enter into the joy of your master.” — Matthew 25:21

That’s the prize Harvey has always been running toward — not fame, not applause, but faithfulness.


What More Can We Say About True Goodness

True goodness is one of the simplest virtues to describe and the hardest to live. It doesn’t draw attention to itself, and that’s what makes it powerful. In a culture that confuses being nice with being good, Harvey reminds us that goodness is not mere politeness — it is holiness expressed in kindness. One looks at Harvey’s face and sees Christ looking back.

Goodness is love with feet on the ground.
It’s compassion that costs something.
It’s humility that refuses to quit.

The truly good person doesn’t act good to be admired; he acts good because his heart has been changed. Goodness is what happens when a man allows God’s Spirit to shape his motives, reactions, and tone. It’s not performance — it’s transformation.

“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life.” — Psalm 23:6

Goodness follows those who walk with God — it’s the fragrance left behind by faith.


A Benediction of Goodness

Goodness walks softly, without sound,
Its footsteps holy, sure, and bound
To hearts that serve and hands that mend,
To lives that love until the end.

It does not shout, it does not shine,
It whispers of a grace divine.
It bends to lift, it waits, it prays,
It lives the truth it dares to praise.

No crowd applauds, no trumpet rings,
Yet Heaven knows such quiet things.
The smile that steadies, the prayer unheard,
The faithful deed, the gentle word.

And when life’s race is nearly run,
And shadows fade before the Son,
The voice of God will softly say —
“Well done, good heart, you showed the way.”


In Harvey Oaxaca, we glimpse what true goodness looks like — not distant, not impossible, but alive, humble, and quietly shining in McKinney, Texas, every Sunday morning.

Concentric Circles of Concern

A collaboration between Lewis McLain & AI

Revisiting an influential book for me, fitting into the primary theme of my recent posts. LFM


Introduction: The Man Behind the Circles

William Oscar Thompson Jr. (1918–1980) lived a life that testified to the power of relationship. He was not a man of grand celebrity or global fame; rather, he was a pastor and evangelist whose impact spread quietly through students, parishioners, and colleagues who absorbed his conviction that the Christian life must be lived relationally, not institutionally.
After two decades of faithful pastoral work, Thompson became a professor of evangelism at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Fort Worth, Texas. It was there, during his own physical suffering and eventual battle with cancer, that he refined the model that would outlive him — a model that connected spiritual authenticity with human connection.

Thompson’s health declined even as his insight deepened. He realized that the gospel was never meant to travel primarily by microphone or mass event, but through people whose lives touched one another’s every day — in kitchens, workplaces, front porches, and hospital rooms. After his death in 1980, his wife, Carolyn Thompson Ritzmann, edited his unfinished manuscript, and evangelism teacher Claude V. King (best known for Experiencing God) later helped expand and republish it. The revised edition, Concentric Circles of Concern: Seven Stages for Making Disciples, was released in 1999 by Broadman & Holman, nearly two decades after the original 1981 publication.

The phrase “concentric circles” is not just a metaphor in Thompson’s hands; it is a theology of life. His belief was that the Christian’s influence for Christ begins not in distant mission fields but within the very relationships already entrusted to them. Evangelism, he argued, must ripple outward from the integrity of the inner life — from the soul that has been made right with God — until it touches every layer of community, from family to stranger. His framework provides a vision of discipleship that is both deeply personal and expansively missional, a reminder that faith spreads through people who love well.



The Concentric Circles and Their Living Logic

At the heart of the book lies a simple, unforgettable diagram: seven circles, each one nested inside the next, radiating outward from a center. The image, though deceptively modest, reshapes how one thinks about spiritual responsibility.

1. Self

The innermost circle, labeled Self, represents one’s own soul — the center of all relational and spiritual life. For Thompson, self-examination and humility before God are not indulgent acts but sacred ones. A Christian must first cultivate honesty with themselves and communion with their Creator. Spiritual neglect at this level produces hypocrisy; spiritual health here produces authenticity that naturally flows outward. He reminds his readers that “the most important word in the English language, apart from proper nouns, is relationship.” That relationship begins vertically — between oneself and God — and then extends horizontally into every human connection. Evangelism without integrity is noise; discipleship without inner renewal is hollow ritual.

2. Family

The second circle embraces one’s immediate family. It is easy, Thompson observed, to romanticize missions across oceans while ignoring ministry across the dinner table. The home is the first proving ground of grace. Faith that cannot be lived out among those who know us best will rarely stand in the wider world. A Christian who learns to forgive within marriage, to listen to their children, or to extend patience to aging parents is already practicing evangelism of the highest order. Family is the first “field” of discipleship, where love is tested daily and faith becomes tangible.

3. Relatives

The third circle includes extended family — the kin network that may stretch across states, generations, and emotional boundaries. These relationships are often complicated by history, misunderstanding, or absence. Thompson urges believers not to abandon these connections but to redeem them. The gospel’s reconciling power, he writes, often begins when a believer takes the initiative to heal an old wound or rekindle a neglected bond. A letter of apology, a phone call of encouragement, or an unexpected act of service within the extended family can become the spark of redemption.

4. Friends

Friends form the fourth circle — those we choose to walk beside in life. Unlike family, friendship is elective; it is built on mutual trust and shared affection. Thompson views friendship as one of the most powerful conduits of witness. Friends already see us unfiltered; they know our habits, hopes, and contradictions. When they witness genuine spiritual transformation in our character, they often feel it before they hear it. To live faithfully among friends is to let the gospel speak through laughter, loyalty, and long conversation.

5. Neighbors and Associates

Next come Neighbors and Associates — the people who share our routines but not necessarily our intimacy: colleagues, classmates, teammates, or the barista who knows our order by heart. Thompson believed these daily intersections were fertile soil for spiritual conversation, if approached with humility and care. Instead of seeing such relationships as mundane, he taught his students to see them as providential appointments. Every encounter, no matter how ordinary, carries the potential of divine significance.

6. Acquaintances

The sixth circle widens to include those we know only loosely — the casual relationships of community life. Here, evangelism takes the form of kindness and presence more than speech. Thompson often told his students that “you may be the only gospel someone ever reads,” meaning that one’s demeanor and compassion can preach where words cannot. Consistency — being gracious over time — often speaks louder than any tract or slogan.

7. Person X

Finally comes Person X — the unknown stranger, the person with no prior connection. Most evangelistic training begins here, teaching believers how to witness to strangers. Thompson deliberately places it last. He argues that the credibility built in inner circles prepares believers to approach outer ones with sincerity rather than anxiety. When a life already radiates peace and love, even a stranger senses authenticity. Evangelism to “Person X,” then, is not a special performance; it is the natural overflow of a life already aligned with God.

Thompson captured the urgency of this relational approach when he wrote, “Most of our lives are crucified between two thieves, yesterday and tomorrow. We never live today. But the time to live is now.” The concentric circles remind us that the mission field is not someday or somewhere else — it is here, in the people who already populate our lives.


The Seven Stages of Making Disciples

Thompson’s circles describe who we are called to influence; his seven stages explain how. The stages form a dynamic rhythm — not a rigid checklist but a living cycle of growth that repeats again and again.

Stage 1: Get Right

Spiritual influence begins with moral clarity. To “get right” is to confront sin, mend broken relationships, and align one’s will with God’s. Thompson likens unreconciled relationships to blockages in a pipe: until they are cleared, the Spirit’s flow is obstructed. Getting right means making amends, confessing pride, forgiving debts, and letting the Holy Spirit cleanse the inner life. This stage humbles the believer before they presume to guide another.

Stage 2: Survey

Once reconciled, the believer must “survey” their relational field — a prayerful mapping of the people God has already placed within reach. Thompson encouraged writing names in each circle, not as a project list but as a sacred responsibility list. The act of seeing these names laid out visually reawakens compassion. We begin to see that our lives are already mission fields bursting with divine opportunity.

Stage 3: Pray

Prayer, for Thompson, is the lifeblood of evangelism. He calls it “a guided missile — it always hits its target.” Prayer aligns the heart with God’s timing and opens doors that human persuasion cannot. The believer prays not only for conversion but for understanding, patience, and divine orchestration — that conversations will arise naturally, that the Spirit will prepare both speaker and listener. Without prayer, evangelism degenerates into salesmanship; with prayer, it becomes partnership with God.

Stage 4: Build Bridges

Bridge-building is the practical art of connection. It may involve hospitality, listening, volunteering, or sharing a meal. Thompson viewed every bridge as an act of incarnation — stepping into another’s world as Christ stepped into ours. Bridges require humility, empathy, and time. They often begin with small acts: remembering a name, showing up at a funeral, sending a card. Over time, these gestures form trust strong enough to carry the weight of truth.

Stage 5: Show Love

The fifth stage deepens bridge-building into tangible service. “Love that is not demonstrated is not credible,” Thompson warns. To show love means to meet needs: to feed the hungry, comfort the grieving, or simply listen without agenda. Genuine love expects nothing in return. When people experience that kind of care, they become open not merely to a message but to a Messenger. Thompson’s famous illustration of a student returning a stolen motorcycle mirror captures this stage perfectly: confession and restitution became a living sermon that words alone could not match.

Stage 6: Make Disciples

Having earned trust and demonstrated love, the believer can now share the gospel sincerely. But Thompson insists this is not the finish line — it is the midpoint. True discipleship involves walking with new believers as they learn to obey Christ, discover Scripture, and find community. Evangelism divorced from discipleship, he warned, produces orphans; discipleship joined with love produces heirs. Making disciples means nurturing growth until the new believer can, in turn, disciple others.

Stage 7: Begin Again

The cycle ends where it began — and then continues. The new disciple becomes a new center of concentric influence, applying the same seven stages to their own relationships. Thus, the gospel spreads organically, not by mass production but by multiplication — one circle at a time. Thompson’s model mirrors nature itself: seeds producing fruit that carries new seeds. Discipleship is the divine geometry of multiplication through love.


Theology and Heartbeat of the Model

At its core, Concentric Circles of Concern is a theology of incarnation. It declares that God’s mission moves through human relationships — not in spite of them. Christ entered history relationally, dwelling among us; His followers must do the same. The model ties spiritual maturity to relational responsibility. To be “right with God” without being reconciled to others is an illusion.

Thompson’s vision also bridges two great biblical commands: the Great Commission (“Go and make disciples”) and the Great Commandment (“Love your neighbor as yourself”). The circles remind believers that these are not separate mandates but two halves of the same calling. Evangelism divorced from love becomes manipulation; love without truth becomes sentimentality. The mature Christian practices both — speaking truth through relationships of genuine care.

Prayer anchors this balance. Thompson’s metaphor of prayer as a “guided missile” conveys both power and precision: prayer can reach where presence cannot. It can travel across distance, culture, and even hostility. When believers pray for those within each circle, their hearts become attuned to God’s compassion, and they see people not as projects but as souls.


Strengths, Challenges, and Contemporary Relevance

The enduring strength of Thompson’s model lies in its simplicity. It does not require technology, programs, or budgets — only attentiveness, humility, and perseverance. Yet its simplicity hides profound depth. The circles create a lifelong map for Christian influence, reminding believers that evangelism is less about campaigns and more about consistency.

In today’s world of fractured relationships and digital disconnection, Concentric Circles of Concern feels prophetic. Our social networks may have expanded, but our intimacy has shrunk. Thompson’s framework invites believers to slow down, notice, and invest. Modern adaptation can include digital circles — online friends, social followers, professional networks — but the principle remains unchanged: spiritual credibility flows through relationship.

Still, Thompson’s model demands balance. One must not become so inwardly focused that the outer circle, Person X, is forgotten. Nor should believers treat relationships as strategies for conversion. The goal is love, not leverage. When love is real, evangelism follows naturally. As Thompson might say, evangelism is not a project to complete but a person to become.


Memorable Quotations

“The most important word in the English language, apart from proper nouns, is relationship.”
“Intercessory prayer is like a guided missile — it always hits its target.”
“Most of our lives are crucified between two thieves, yesterday and tomorrow. We never live today.”
“Love that is not demonstrated is not credible.”
“You cannot lead someone closer to the Lord than you are yourself.”

These words capture his conviction that relational faith is both the method and the message of the gospel.


Reflective Poem — Ripples of Concern

I stand within the quiet center,
A soul restored, the heart made whole;
From this still place the circles widen,
Grace flows outward, soul to soul.

My home becomes the first frontier,
Where love must bloom before it’s taught;
And every quarrel, every silence,
Is soil where mercy must be sought.

Through friendship’s bridge and neighbor’s need,
Through acts of care that speak, not plead,
The gospel walks on human feet,
Love’s language stronger than a creed.

Beyond the known, to stranger’s face,
The ripples travel, still by grace;
Till every heart, in widening span,
Feels heaven’s pulse through human hands.

And when another life takes flame,
A new set of circles starts again;
From self to world, from love to light,
The pattern echoes Christ’s design.


Concentric Circles of Concern remains one of the clearest blueprints ever written for living out the Great Commission through the Great Commandment. Thompson’s wisdom continues to challenge believers to think relationally, act prayerfully, love tangibly, and live authentically — one circle at a time